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LIVING RIGHT TO LIVE

LIVING RIGHT TO LIVE.


Man has an underlying need to discover, identify and unveil the reason for living, which is synonymous to self actualization and the only way to live like this is Living Rightly.
We need fulfilment, we need to live rightly, we need to be happy, we need to really say, I have lived well!




Thus, 




"Man.
Because he sacrifices his health in order to make money.
Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health.
And then he is so anxious about the future that he does not enjoy the present;
the result being that he does not live in the present or the future;
he lives as if he is never going to die, and then dies having never really lived."
– The 14th Dalai Lama






There's just one thing holding you from living your right life, from living the way you want to live, from knowing that capability, for unveiling that potential and that one thing is you; the prison of your mind.

If you don't create life for others, you can't create life for yourself. because if you create life for others, you're creating life for yourself!

We have to keep living, keep breathing, and we have to be sad, but we need to be happy. and happiness is a means of creating life for others.

Often time, we tend to look beyond our original position, fantasizing about the good, also, looking at the bad. it is said, we can use a stone to kill two birds, but we can never kill a bird with two stones, because after your first attempt with a stone, the bird will escape before you throw another stone. to break it down, you can use your happiness (a stone) to create life for others and yourself (the two birds) but you can't use yourself and others as a source of happiness if you don't give one. it is called human intellectual trafficking!
You give to others what you want them to give to you. Happiness is essential, give it to others.


Practically, let us live.
Set a goal, set goals, set goals, set a goal.
We can't just come here and say we've really lived when we use ourselves for money and use the money to 'buy' our health. we don't have time to waste because we don't have time.
Know what you can achieve, set that goal, stretch your life, be governed with something, be disciplined, use your capabilities, stretch it and see what you can achieve with that goal. you don't have time to think repeatedly, set goals, take actions; LIVE RIGHTLY.


No no no, don't live for others, create life for others so as to live your life yourself!

If you don't live your life yourself, you're living for others, you're doing as you're ordered and you're not matured!
A baby cannot resist the urge to piss on its body even if the mother frowns, be that baby. Don't do what they expect, do the noble work you love to do, that will eventually make them happy. LIVE RIGHTLY.



No no no, don't complain, don't be jealous, don't be ashamed. no no no, you can fail, yes, you can fail. Don't complain, don't compare yourself, don't be ashamed, don't be jealous, it is okay to fail! If you don't want to fail, you can't make it. It is like failure itself is a prerequisite to success.

I heard it, they said, if we're afraid to do a thing, we'll never do it. If we're afraid of success, we can never succeed, and if we're afraid of failure, we can never fail yet we'll not succeed because we're afraid of failing.
The ability to be able to see beyond our failure is what we call success at its foundation. If you can't look beyond your fears, who are you? nobody!

 So if you overcome failure, you're a success and the only one to overcome failure, Beloved, it is overcoming its fear. LIVE RIGHTLY.




Ignore things, not everything count. make a difference, don't write like that them, write you. Don't read like them, read the way you do, don't do their work, do your work, live for yourself by living for others. I mean, if you succeed, you cannot just take it all, you cannot drive your car alone, you cannot live alone, you cannot work alone, your success is for everybody. Live for yourself and live for others!
I've said it, the only way to create happiness for yourself is creating happiness for others. And it's one of the ways to Live Rightly.

Feed your mind, feed your intellectuality, be conscious of what you do, be yourself! The only inherent ability of man is his reality. If you don't look at your ability, your realities, you'll keep working in a shade, you'll continue smiling in shadows, because you haven't face the reality and you haven't  — really...sadly. — you haven't really lived.

Plan for your future, improve your skills! A stagnant but good river will soon dry! Improve your skills, plan for your future.
No no no, don't be afraid, overcome your fears, look beyond them, the time to be afraid isn't in your schedule, it isn't in your career, it isn't in your life, you are only afraid when you don't want to live, when you can't face the reality and if you can't, congratulations, you have successfully lived and walked in shadows: in the shadows of yourself, in the shadows of reality. Congratulations!



Follow your priority, follow your instincts, be sure of yourself. See, you don't have to always win. Yes. No no no, you don't have to always win but you must always have that passion for success. See, it is the joy and love for what you're doing that yields success not just what you do.

See, don't confuse yourself, be happy with yourself, your smile heals a thousand wounds.
Face reality and be yourself, live that life for yourself, live and let others live. That is "living right to live!"
Nothing kills than fear, it is the fear you have in the gun that kills your beforehand.


Please don't chase money, if you chase money, you'll become lazy because you won't get money when you need it and, you'll be discouraged.

Work on yourself, surround yourself with people, with potential, with masters, with peoples of same goal, with people with dreams, surround yourself with successes!

It is just you that can design your life, it is just you that can live the way you can, it is just life that can achieve, the success you crave for, nobody will do it for you, it is just you.
but when you do it, you're doing it for others. What you do for others is as doing its best for yourself.

Let me add this, there is no failure anywhere, the only failures I know are those afraid of success, afraid of trying and afraid of living. If you really want to live, if you're really persistent to live, trust me, you have overcome failure. all you need to do is to look up at that success, look up at yourself as the next 10 years and see how big you can become 'just' if you do away with fear.
The success you want is in you, only if you see it.
If you see that success in you, you're living rightly, you're living to live, to be remembered, in fact, you have influenced others by your living. You have lived for other to live, you have shared happiness, so as to be happy.
You have lived rightly to live, you have lived successfully!


Conclusively, We only live, when we know what living rightly means. Oh, you've only lived when you know how to share happiness. You can live, 'only' if you want to.
Sharing/giving happiness is as getting its best for yourself.
Live rightly, you can live when you want to...



"words from the innocent mind"

Akinwale Peace Akindayo

Philip Peace

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